I have to support my family the best I can. i have to push myself when there is no choice. I work from home, which allows me to take breaks, but at the end of the day we all need that paycheck. So I pace myself when I work. Laying down for 12 to 15 minutes at least 4 times a day, more when needed. Working from home is a blessing so I can do that. But my work is intellectual, I can not do much physically.
The above and Whey Protein (Immuplus, now immunocal because immuplus is discontinued) has allowed me support my family for 21 years of CFIDS. They have been years of a lot self discovery due to the tremendous challenge that this disease is on a day to day basis. Specially being the primary bread winner.
The biggest change in my quality of life and outlook was when I started the simple guided meditation taught in Gupta's Amygdala retraining.
That program helped some but not much. The best thing I got from it, was to show me that I could improve my weill being with the likes of meditation. I do an even better meditation now from the Art of Living, link here:
http://www.artofliving.org/in-en/free-online-meditation
I have my own version. The version I do most commonly is the same as in the link except that I stop at the face and do not continue going up. I noticed that continuing up gives better results but it also uses more energy. So most of the time I stop going up at the face. Before coming out, sometimes I say OM 3x, sometimes not. When you try it first, I recommed you do the whole thing until you learn it. Then decide if you want to modify anything.
Doing the above 2x a day has reduced my inflammation and has allowed me to be a happy person in spite of the severe challenges faced. When I heard PWCs talk about mediation before, I discounted it, as some of you may do now. However the effects are amazing: Everything looks sharper and clearer. Stress and fustration dissipates. CFIDS improves!!
I get an internal joy that strengthes me. I become more aware of the beauty of others in my life and have a more peaceful control of the emotions triggered by this disease. It only takes a few minutes. It is free. Why don't you try it. It is the best thing I did. You will feel better in 20 minutes.
When doing reguarly, it is best to do it 2x per day, once before breakfast, and then before supper.